 | ― Or, as my grandmother once put it to my mother: ‘Your father would be a wonderful man, if only he were different.
― Ha
― Yes, ha. A whole epic of pain and suffering reduced to a single sentence.
― Matrimony as a swamp, as a lifelong exercise in self-delusion. |
✖ Via Leviathan by Paul Auster, New York: Penguin, 1992, p. 91 |
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There is nothing that man fears more than the touch of the unknown. He wants to see what is reaching towards him, and to be able to recognize or at least classify it. Man always tends to avoid physical contact with anything strange. In the dark, the fear of an unexpected touch can mount to panic. Even clothes give insufficient security: it is easy to tear them and pierce through to the naked, smooth, defenceless flesh of the victim.
All the distances which men create round themselves are dictated by this fear. They shut themselves in houses which noone may enter, and only there feel some measure of security. The fear of burglars is not only the fear of being robbed, but also the fear of a sudden and unexpected clutch out of the darkness. |
✖ Via Crowds and Power by Elias Canetti, tr. Carol Stewart, New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, [1960]1962, p. 15 (originally published as Masse und Macht, Hamburg: Claassen Verlag, 1960) |
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 | So the community does you no damn good! |
✖ Via The New York Times: “The Anosognosic’s Dilemma: Something’s Wrong but You’ll Never Know What It Is (Part 5)” by Errol Morris, June 24th, 2010 Who ever said that community was supposed to do good things for you? Really? I’m aware that most of us think that way, but where is this idea coming from? And what about another idea : community is a problem, not a solution. Consider this: (…) what is meant by this word body politic, and how it signifieth not the concord, but the union of many men. We are together, yes, but not necessarily because we love or agree with each other. This quote is taken from the book Elements of Law by Thomas Hobbes, chap. 8, §7, 1650. |
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 | On dirait qu’il y a dans le sujet humain comme une pulsion de loi. |
✖ Via Roland Barthes, Comment vivre ensemble : simulations romanesques de quelques espaces quotidiens. Notes de cours et de séminaires au Collège de France 1976-1977, texte établi et présenté par Claude Coste, p. 164 (Audio recordings of those lessons are available HERE) Roland Barthes poursuit en donnant pour exemple une scène inaugurale du roman The Lord of The Flies (Golding) : “(…) dès que les enfants découvrent qu’ils vont être leurs propres maîtres sur l’île, passage instantanné de l’état de nature à l’état de règlement, et donc de loi. Jack : «On aura des règlements, s’écria-t-il avec enthousiasme. Des tas de règlements. Alors ceux qui désobéiront…»” Sans doute une autre illustration peut-elle être mise en lumière dans le film The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance (1962). |
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 | How do you know that you’re the one? You don’t know. It’s a shot in the dark. You take it or you become a normal civilized person from 8 to 5… Get married have children… Christmas together… Here comes gramma : «Hi gramma, come on in… Hi you…». You know… Sure I couldn’t take that, I would have murder myself. |
✖ Via The Charles Bukowski Tapes, Barbet Schroeder, 1987. |
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